Get a loudspeaker

“How was it?” I was asked when I came back from TEDWomen 2018.

It was so hard to answer!

I had the immense privilege of attending my first ever TEDWomen event earlier this month. I still find it hard to describe it in just a couple of words. It meant so much to me on so many levels. I will try to explain.

TEDWomen is the annual conference by TED that focuses on discussing the advancement of women in society. It brings together speakers from all over the world who tackle today’s social, political, environmental, and technological issues and offer solutions with their own doing. TED is a globally recognized platform that allows groundbreaking ideas to find their voice and spread their message across the globe through talks, podcasts, events, and online content.

Every TED event has a theme, and this year’s theme was Showing Up:

Imagine being in a room full of women and men who deeply care about and understand women’s advancement in society—advancement at work, at home, in their social environment, in their own selves. It was like being at a concert and singing each song with not just your voice, but with all the voices around you, too. The music reaching the sky. An endless symphony of possibility.

Here are my takeaways from this incredibly touching experience:

  • First, it is important that you focus on the seat at the table and find your voice. Then you must do something else: get a loudspeaker. Having a voice is an essential part of the equation. Try to be heard beyond the walls, borders, and barriers and reach those who need to hear you so that they will break into the room and start singing with you

  • When women’s voices and stories spread across the air, they turn into a choir, and the feeling of belonging and freedom is immense. I did feel this on my skin when we were all in the conference room, hundreds of us, all geared towards changing the future, ready to have an impact

  • Vulnerability, anger, empathy, and passion are incredibly powerful traits of every human being. Sadly, they have been negatively attributed to women for centuries, and we are now finally seeing a change in the narrative. Soraya Chemaly, author and journalist, gave us a powerful revelation of the disastrous effects of social construction of anger on women

  • Many talks left a scar on me. The experience of other people’s suffering in extreme circumstances took the stage and left many of us speechless. They told stories far and near, but all real and from planet Earth. It was painful but healing, too, for us as well as for those brave women “with the loudspeaker”; getting closer, suffering, sharing, and being aware are really the tools to become truly free. We should embrace all of these emotions and risk overexposure so that we are then able to move on and become more aware and empowered

  • Many if not all “women’s issues” are indeed people’s issues. What we need is what everyone needs. What we propose would benefit more than a half of the population! Organizations should change the way they look at us in the workplace and ensure they hear our concerns and proposals so that they can then implement change for everyone.

  • So many journeys of self-discovery lead us to become the person that we needed and did not have when we were little, or the one we wish we had had by our side through hard times and never found. This shows how powerful our intentions can be once we decide to change things for the better.

  • Empathy is one of the driving forces of success, for those who practice it and for those who receive it. Tarana Burke, activist and founder of the #MeToo movement, based her talk on this golden rule.

  • Taking structural biologist Karissa Sanbonmatsu’s words, all in all we are women “trying to figure out what it means to be a woman.” It is important to know that each of us is responsible for our future story. Each of us.

I will pick up my loudspeaker and continue to relay that TEDWomen was an incredible experience, and I hope you get a loudspeaker and share your voice, too.


This article first appeared on We Are The City

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